Discussion: Kink
Feb. 3rd, 2011 09:18 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
... do you like it? Do you want it in your fics? Is it a pleasant bonus or a hit to the back button? Do you seek it out or avoid it as much as possible. And if you feel comfortable sharing, what are those kinks in fiction that make your cheeks burn as you giggle with glee?
Personally, I'm a big fan of kink. The grittier and more realistic the better. I like it fun, I like it serious. I like it casual, I like it devoted. And I'm bit by bit trying all of the various kinks in my writing. All the ones I've heard of and even some discoveries.
What sort of things push my button? *laughs* It's more about what doesn't. But I'll try to keep this simple.
You probably know, from my writing, the things I really enjoy. Bondage is high up there, and so is spanking. *grins* I'm also a big fan of power play from both ends: I love writing the submissive and the dominant side. And I still can't decide if I prefer the POV of a masochist or a sadist, probably both. Inflicting pain and enduring pain are both fascinating. Knifeplay makes me all kinds of excited, and bloodplay intrigues me greatly. Dirty talk, when done well, can be great. Rough, aggressive sex makes me happy. *laughs*
Let's see. Blindfolds? Yes. Threesomes/moresomes? Yes, please. Biting? Ooo boy, I wish I wrote this more. Double penetration? Heh, heh, just wait til you see the drabble I have planned. Voyeurism? Only when those being watched know about it. Phone sex? Not normally, but I've found some good fics that have really worked so yeah, I'll give this one a go. Sex in unusual places? Surprise me!
I'm not a big fan of cross-dressing. I don't really see the appeal in it, though I must admit, I've read one fic that made me drool and that was figaro_figaro's fic "That Damn Dress" with Renji/Ichigo (a pairing I don't even like but she makes it work, damnit). Food sex, that is including food in the fun times, isn't really all that appealing either. In real life, yes, in fiction, nah, I find it kind of boring. I'm not a huge fan of roleplay either, at least not in fiction. It's really hard to write well, to suspend that fantasy when you're already reading about something that's a fantasy, so I don't really find it appealing either. At least, not in fiction. *grins*
Hmm... did I miss anything?
So what about my f-list? Kink: yes or no? And if you feel comfortable, share what revs your engjnes.
Personally, I'm a big fan of kink. The grittier and more realistic the better. I like it fun, I like it serious. I like it casual, I like it devoted. And I'm bit by bit trying all of the various kinks in my writing. All the ones I've heard of and even some discoveries.
What sort of things push my button? *laughs* It's more about what doesn't. But I'll try to keep this simple.
You probably know, from my writing, the things I really enjoy. Bondage is high up there, and so is spanking. *grins* I'm also a big fan of power play from both ends: I love writing the submissive and the dominant side. And I still can't decide if I prefer the POV of a masochist or a sadist, probably both. Inflicting pain and enduring pain are both fascinating. Knifeplay makes me all kinds of excited, and bloodplay intrigues me greatly. Dirty talk, when done well, can be great. Rough, aggressive sex makes me happy. *laughs*
Let's see. Blindfolds? Yes. Threesomes/moresomes? Yes, please. Biting? Ooo boy, I wish I wrote this more. Double penetration? Heh, heh, just wait til you see the drabble I have planned. Voyeurism? Only when those being watched know about it. Phone sex? Not normally, but I've found some good fics that have really worked so yeah, I'll give this one a go. Sex in unusual places? Surprise me!
I'm not a big fan of cross-dressing. I don't really see the appeal in it, though I must admit, I've read one fic that made me drool and that was figaro_figaro's fic "That Damn Dress" with Renji/Ichigo (a pairing I don't even like but she makes it work, damnit). Food sex, that is including food in the fun times, isn't really all that appealing either. In real life, yes, in fiction, nah, I find it kind of boring. I'm not a huge fan of roleplay either, at least not in fiction. It's really hard to write well, to suspend that fantasy when you're already reading about something that's a fantasy, so I don't really find it appealing either. At least, not in fiction. *grins*
Hmm... did I miss anything?
So what about my f-list? Kink: yes or no? And if you feel comfortable, share what revs your engjnes.